Name:   Talullahhound - Subject:   GF - for the record Date:   11/10/2022 8:43:28 PM

I think adoption is definitely an option, and of course, there are many, many deserving couple who would love to odopt.  But we need to work on the idea taht it is okay to bear and child and then give it up.  I think society still looks down on that.  And I wonder about the emotional bond - so many adopted children seem to feel the need to seek out their birth mother.  

For me, the issue is in the abstract - I've never been pregnant or in the situation.